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The Good Example

Thu, 5 Nov 2026 · 20:30 — 22:30

Theater De Liefde, Haarlem

The Good Example — Theater De Liefde, Haarlem

Vlamousse returns with a sharp, musical show about motherhood. Brigitte van Bakel and Maya van As take the stage as new mothers with two completely different stories: one followed the traditional path with her husband, the other pioneered a rainbow family through insemination as a queer woman. Yet they share the same conclusion - the child itself is wonderful, but everything surrounding it is a complete disillusionment.

Growing up in the 1990s on romantic comedies about painless births, naturally conceived children, and men constantly sighing about how beautiful you are, they were fed a lie. It's time for a good example, so no one enters parenthood so unprepared.

In The Good Example, they take aim at the reality of young mothers: the childbirth class that claimed your body was made for giving birth, the idea that breastfeeding is a painless gift of nature, and the belief that you can only be a real mother if you've given birth yourself. The show is musical and razor-sharp, aimed at new mothers, pregnant mothers, queer mothers, non-biological mothers, fathers, and the childless who enjoy a bit of schadenfreude.

Direction: Anouk Beugels | Music: Bram Brouwers | Set design: Rivka Koops

Press reviews:
★★★★ "Vlamousse pulls countless irresistibly creative scenes and sketches from their sleeve" - Trouw
"Hits exactly the right note" - Theaterkrant
★★★★★ "A modern production, straight to the point, no clichés, but the raw story" - Theaterparadijs